Become as rich as you deserve to be
Thursday, August 19th, 2010 by Kim BolsoverIt seems to me that women starting out in business bring so much unwanted baggage with them and, yet, we have so many innate skills that are just crying out to be made the most of.
You would make an absolutely great business owner if only you stopped listening to the doomsayers and those who are probably green with envy at the very thought of NOT being brave enough themselves to do what you’re contemplating.
Look at what YOU bring to the business arena:
- Women multi-task - YOU do more than one job at a time brilliantly
- Women have brains - and YOU have the common sense to use them
- Women have compassion - YOU care and want to change other people’s lives for the better
- Women have the power - YOU could run your own business so incredibly well…
… and yet, there you are, listening to some grouchy old friend (or worse, a family member) rabbit on with such uplifting sermons as ‘most businesses fail in the first two years’, or ‘there’s already someone locally doing what you’re going to do’ , or ‘women round here will never pay that much’.
STOP listening to these sad people!
The statistics about whether businesses fail or not and when are not proven. In fact one set of stats is always being dis-proved by another. And quite frankly, you can prove anything with figures.
It wouldn’t bother me if there were image consultants living either side of me; there are 21 million women in the UK alone – how many clients can we all get round in one short lifetime?
And in any case, by the time I’ve finished with you, you will be able to charge what you are worth and clients will be queuing up to pay you.
START listening to these wise people!
The immensely wealthy Greek shipping magnate, Aristotle Onassis was asked, “If you lost all your money, Mr. Onassis, what would you do?” He replied, “I would pick up the crumbs from a rich man’s table.”
What he meant was that he would spend his time around and work for and alongside rich people. When you surround yourself with rich people, you become rich. You meet other ‘rich’ people. You pick up their ‘rich’ ideas. You become exposed to and steeped in ‘rich’ thinking.
And if you’re getting hot under the collar about money being seen as the prime motivator here, take a deep breath and read a little further.
‘Rich’ doesn’t just mean having loads of money. If it upsets you, change the word ‘rich’ to ‘abundant’.
Whatever you value in life – great relationships, financial freedom, excellent health – you need to be around people who are drenched in an abundance of what you are searching for.
So being around those poor, sad souls who constantly whinge and moan about life, money, the government, the state of the world and anything else they can think of is going to bring you down to their level (which is very, very low indeed).
Let them stew in their own sorrowful soup.
Move on, and up!
Instead, search out those people who are positive, upbeat, inspiring, energetic, successful, and are drenched in abundance.
And then you’ll become as rich as they are, and as rich as you know you deserve to be.
If you’re serious about working as an image consultant, you need to invest in your business with good colour tools:
Colour analysis is NEVER about the swatches
I’m a real busy bee right now. My wings are going that fast that I might take off at any moment…